We haven't lost a single member to Unity. And honestly dude if you are losing people to them they're probabally not worth having. People should want to learn the encounters and wipe on them til they beat em. If you are losing people to them especially if yo ulost them when you are on the cusp of raiding yourselves they really probabally weren't worth it to begin with. Like I said earlier Ruined hasn't lost anyone to anyone. This is part of the reason that I am extremely confident in my group having a lot of success soon. In fact I think we were the first ones to do the air raid yesterday. Didn't get a server first on kill but did on the lure so who knows.
Anyway though I wouldn't sweat it man you want people that are willing to wipe and want to see and learn content. F the rest. Loot ****** who hop guilds all the time generally don't bring much. I wish you guys luck.