I said I was the antagonist of this argument in the forum due to me making a post while in a sour mood.
I said the in game events are your fault due to the griefing (also the cause of my sour mood).
I have not contradicted myself in the slightest. I made some heated remarks in an antagonistic tone, I regret the tone, I do not regret the general message of "So we're griefing now? WTF?!? I thought you guys were better than that, guess not..."
You do not deserve an apology, your guild members were being griefers, I called them out for it. If it looks like a ****, walks like a ****, and talks like a ****... well you get the idea. Thus far of the responses seem to be of the opinion that griefing is acceptable behaviour and that there will be more of it in future regardless of how the defiants feel about it or behave.
Let me reiterate simply using something Permadrunk said above:
Antagonizers beget antagonism.
Griefers beget griefing.
Prior to today I have never griefed or been griefed. I liked that about our shard, I know you guys have been around the whole time so either I've never really run in to you or you've decided you want to bring griefing to Carrion. Are you sure that's what you want?